Do you remember seeing weird posts from friends like “I like it on the bed”, “I just found out I’m pregnant” or “Post the color of your bra…”?
I think we’ve all seen one of those weird status posts that a friend will make and when you reach out to find out what’s going on you get a private message something like this…
“Hey! You should not have liked or commented! Now you have to pick one of the 14 below and post to your status. This was the 2014 breast cancer awareness game:
Don’t be a spoil sport choose your poison, and change your status 1) Damn diarrhea 2) Just used my boobs to get out of a speeding ticket 3) Anyone have a tampon, I’m out 4) How do you get rid of foot fungus 5) Why is nobody around when I’m horny? 6) No toilet paper goodbye socks! 7) Someone offered me a job as a prostitute but I’m hesitant. 8) I think I’m in love with someone what should I do? 9) I’ve decided 2 stop wearing underwear. 10) I still love my ex. 11) I really don’t know how 2 tell anyone and I’m sick of hiding it I’m gay. 12) Guess it was 2 good 2 b true I’m pregnant. 13) Just won $7000 on a scratchy. 14) I’ve just found out I’ve been cheated on for the past 5 months. Post with no explanations. Sorry, I fell for it too!”
A respected friend and former co-worker posted this with a tidy rant about people being “slactivists” by just playing these games that get nothing done and to do something worthwhile for a worthy cause. I couldn’t agree more.
I’d never heard the word “slacktivist” before but it fits so perfectly. You know, the person who hits “like” but doesn’t lift more than there mousing finger to help.
This is the 2017 breast cancer game. This does nothing to spread awareness of a horrible disease, how does this save lives? Men need to be aware of this too, their wives, daughters, mothers and even they can wind up with breast cancer!
Hi beautiful ladies so here it is the time of year again when we try to raise awareness of breast cancer through a game. Its very easy and i would like all of you to participate. Last year we had to write the colour of our bra’s on our status. Men wondered for days what was going on with random colors on status’s. This year we make reference to our love life status as a flavor. Do not answer to this message just post corresponding word on your status and send this message privately to all the girls on your friends list. Blueberry is single, pineapple is its complicated, raspberry is I dont want to commit, apple is engaged, cherry is in a relationship, banana is married, avacado is I’m the better half, strawberry is can’t find mr right, lemon is I want to be single and raisin is I want to get married to my partner. Last time the bra game was mentioned on t.v let’s see if we can get there with this one. Please resend this to all your girly friends then update your status with your answer ONLY! DONT TELL ANY GUYS! I hope to see lots of fruit
I like fun and games as much as the next person, but really how does this promote breast cancer awareness? Most of the statements have nothing to do with breast cancer (and are mostly obnoxious). How does this get people to self-check? Or donate for research? Or support those who are living with it currently or have survived it?
My mother had breast cancer. She was quite lucky in the grand scheme of things. She found a lump in a self-check and told the doctor. She was then sent for a mammogram and then had a lumpectomy to remove the mass and test to confirm that it was indeed cancer. She went through a couple of months of radiation and that was it. Other family, friends, and acquaintances haven’t been so lucky.
I don’t think I know a single person that hasn’t been impacted by cancer, breast cancer or otherwise. Do you? I personally know people who are currently battling cancer, who have multiple sclerosis (MS), muscular dystrophy (MD) and autism. And that’s just the top of the list. (BTW, if you haven’t heard the new numbers are out. Autism now affects 1 in 68 children. Horrifying!)
Now to be fair, participating in these little games is not indicative of what else you do to support issues that you’re passionate about in the rest of your life… participating in fundraisers, making donations, purchasing items that donate to your cause, boycotting items, etc.
You don’t have to chain yourself to a fence at a nuclear reactor or march or be arrested to be an activist. You just have to be involved and active.
Here are some links to get you started if you’re interested in donating, clicking on any of them will open a new page for that organization:
CLICK HERE to read a great article from Just Give.org about how to help the homeless. Remember that almost all organizations are always looking for volunteers. Check out Volunteer Match.org to find volunteering opportunities in your neighborhood.
Don’t forget your local community needs your help too! Libraries, homeless shelters, animal shelter, blood drives, various coat/clothing/food drives at area churches, food pantries are always looking for donations and volunteers. Being active in your community helps to build a better place to live!
If you recall recent news, due to an incident in a Utah school, people have been donating money to local schools to pay unpaid lunch tabs to ensure that kids get to eat lunch. How awesome is that?
So be proud, tell people what you’ve done and encourage them to do the same. Remember, even if it’s the $2 you were going to spend for your morning coffee, it still helps! Click that “other” box and fill out the amount. No matter how much or how little you can help it will be appreciated.
Participate in breast cancer walks, MDA walks, blood drives, food drives or volunteer your time. Check out my post called Reading is FUNdamental for another great idea for volunteerism! Get your kids involved and teach them to care about their community.
Remember that there can be other rewards as well. I knew a woman who volunteered at the local Y so she could have a family membership in return. My daughter used to volunteer at a local stable during hippotherapy sessions; in exchange, volunteers were offered free riding time. Our local science museum (COSI) trades membership for volunteer hours. If you complete the maximum amount of hours, you get lifetime family admission, which is also good at any reciprocal science center in the country.
Volunteering is also a great way to get on the job experience without having a paid job, a great way for the kids to start out before they start looking for paid work. Throughout my high school years, I babysat for the blood mobile, babysat for a bowling alley during league play, assisted the leader of my sister’s Girl Scout troop and was an obedience instructor at our local canine club.
And the best part? Activism makes you feel good about yourself and connected to the world around you!
So show off your passions, promote your causes, make people aware and care, tell them what you do and challenge them to join you. Be an activist and help those causes that you’re passionate about, show those “slactivists” how it’s done. Let them know it’s not enough to play silly games, they have to help. Then post pictures, give dates of drives and ask your friends what they’re doing and see if they want to join you in the fun.
P.S. If there are any great causes that you are passionate about, leave me a message and I’ll be happy to add it to this list for others to see!